The Victim
November 27, 2011 | 
Author As you go through life your bound to come across one of the most annoying personalities there is, “The Victim”.
The Victim is the type of person who, no matter what, and no matter how, will always portray themselves as………… “The Victim” They are always in the right, life’s been hard and they don’t have a positive bone in their body.
“The Victim” type can be easily recognised by their unwillingness to accept that the crap that’s fallen onto their heads was actually caused by themselves. They can do no wrong and the world does wrong to them all the time.
These type of people will cause trouble and then scream victim when it comes back to bite them in the ass.
Example in point.
I recently met a girl who, for all intents and purposes was quite pleasant to spend time with. There were some minor challenges facing us if we decided to go ahead with a relationship and she decided she didn’t care much for that and backed off. I had no problem with it but then she started to call me and try to bait me with childish sarcastic comments hidden beneath what SHE THOUGHT was just normal conversation. So why was she doing this when she knew it would piss me off – simple, she couldn’t handle the fact that she had got some things wrong and couldn’t stand the idea of her being the one in the wrong. She screamed victim when I refused to answer the phone or reply to her immature emails.
Then she became abusive, blaming me for all her troubles – the victim personality came out with a vengeance.
These types of people are leeches, no matter what has happened to someone else, the victim has had it worse. They know it all, they are forceful and in most cases can become quite abusive.
I have no time for these types of people; my tolerance is low enough as it is.
If you are dating or seeing a “Victim” I suggest carefully evaluating how much you really like that person because in the end they are going to be a right royal pain in the ass.
